Internet
dating has appeared not so long ago. So, we can speak about it as a
newly born trend, which took place in 21 century. Practically all of
us have ever visited dating sites with the only one desire – to
find love there. So, we all know what it is like. As Internet becomes
more and more popular for everybody, Internet dating also develops.
We can either just chat on line with someone or even create our own
profile and it will be like a personal diary. So, here we are to
explain the users, how does on line dating work and what it present
for us.
So,
why do people date on line? There are a lot of answers. First of all,
Internet is a place, where you go to with hope to find somebody
familiar to you. You can chat with people, whom you like and who
appreciate you. While chatting you explore your inner world, you find
some trait in you, which you have never explored in you in real life.
It helps you to be who you are and it is very important. We hope that
nobody will judge us there, nobody tells anything bad about you. This
anonymousness helps people to open them to the others and to be
yourself. These are the things, which we often can’t do in our real
life. But think also about the negative side of on line dating –
cheating. It is a real problem, how pity it would sound. You never
know what kind of a person there is in front of the computer. Usually
most people just exaggerate their qualities in order to create a good
impression of them.
Usually
people do this on purpose. And it is pleasantly to hear that there
are still people, who do not do this.
There
are many reasons, why do the relations in the net form. Sometimes
married people find for someone abroad to fulfill their inner
emotions, but mostly single people try to find those, who have same
interests and viewpoints. The choice of people in the net is so wide
that you can find any unique person as you wish. The surveys showed
that the most interesting areas for those, who chat on line, are
relations and sexual relations. In the Internet people are able to
show more of them then in real life. They become more open to other
people. More honest to each other, as they think nobody could see
them and punish for their thoughts. If in the end of such
communication a couple appears, their relations would usually be more
strong and pleasant than all others. By the way, many people would
like to meet person from other country, whom they chat with in the
net.
Though
internet relations are spreading, they have an effect on real
relations and communication. As you understand, Internet relations
are much easier to hide from people, whom you wouldn’t like to know
about it. In virtual life all kinds of relations do exist, no matter
if you are just friend or look for deep heart emotions. But according
to the surveys, different Internet affairs and relations have a huge
effect on existing relations, though many people may think that real
affairs only have some effect. It happens so because no matter which
an affair is, you pay much attention to this affair but forget about
you ordinary daily problems and family.
Internet
is also a huge surface for you to show your sexuality. Its popularity
grows every day. Providers help users and provide them a lot of place
for their fantasies. Also you may find a sexual partner there, share
your sexual preferences and fantasies. In such a way they allow
people to take different roles, what he or she desires. It’s like a
game. You can change yourself whenever you wish. As to the outcomes
of such experiments with our sexuality, there are negative and
positive results. Sure, such experiments may play a good role for
some people, but not for all. Also you will be able to see that on
line sex has some frames and limitations. But nevertheless such
sexual relations develop much faster than in reality. It happens so
because good conditions are made by the Internet. People know
beforehand about their partner and their goals. Unlike in real life
you do not know what to expect. Here people wait for the same from
each other. Also you never think of what people around would say. You
are only with your partner and nobody bothers about you. You do what
you want, and you want what you do.
This
is also an important point of trust in the net. You know that you and
him or her are totally anonymous and you can trust your partner and
you will be sure that he or she has no sense to tell lies, so as you.
In real life we know about the responsibilities before another person
and you never know could you trust someone or not. Also as physical
contact is not involved in the process while having experiments on
line in the Internet, you feel totally safe and calm. Everything, of
which you dreamd about, you can fulfil here. You can use all your
sexuality and a lot of other means in order to get satisfaction and
fulfillment from your partner on-line.
There
were times long ago, when we couldn’t even imagine a possibility to
have any relations with a person, whom you do not know and who is far
from you. A long time passed since we thought of especially sexual
relation on line. But the times have changed, people have changed and
our way of life too. We think in another way now, the world develops
and we develop too. Now on line dating and Internet relations are
quiet normal and very popular among people of all ages. We all are
from different countries, have different attitudes and different
appearance. But Internet is a place, which gives us freedom, which we
can’t find in our daily life. And this trend will only be
developing more and more. We will never stop any more. This freedom
allowes us to live a full life!
